Hi Tanya, welcome to the site

My girlfriend also tried this idea a while back, but she was pregnant and didn't have the time to see it through.
She was going round some of the other similar sites and registering there, speaking with their admins and getting her banner posted about, then of course, you have friends and family who can join, this will make the site look more busy.
Just a couple of suggestions if I may:-
1) reduce the number of forums you have. Some can be combined, such as your chat room, photo forums and your personal forum (make them all under one catagory)
2) remove some of the unused forums,as all you have are empty forums which contributes to your forum looking deserted.
By all means add them later as your forum grows, but keep it small for now and let it grow as your membership does
3) Try and remove the 'text talk' from your forum descriptions, it may seem as if your being casual and creating a laid back atmosphere, but things like 'u' in place of 'you' can actually be irritating to the eye.
4) I'd be wary about having a photo section for kids..in todays sad world you could attract the wrong type of attention to your site, you may certainly get law enforcment authorities poking around

Sorry if i sound negative, but I went through a similar thing with my site when i first started it, I had so many sub forums and ideas that the board looked very empty. I asked for feedback from another site I go to and a member there did a similar thing, and absolutely ripped my site apart...but he was right in what he said, I was too bias to see it.
Anyway, that's my 2 pennies worth, good luck with the venture
